Dating a female player
"If you want more and she clearly doesn't, you may choose to move on to someone who wants the same kind of relationship you do," she adds.
She’s Hot and Cold One minute she's all in, asking you to go on vacation with her six months out; the next, she's putting major distance between you and saying things were never serious.
Sure, you've had some shaky relationships in the past—some ex-girlfriends who were a little too high maintenance—but nothing's worse than being played.
If you nabbed the girl who's out of your league, but have a hunch she's lying, maybe even cheating on you, take a look at the most common signs a woman's got you wrapped around her finger (in all the wrong ways), according to Paulette Kouffman Sherman, Ph. If she's super flaky and dips out on dinner plans often, drop her.
The guy has a taxi ordered for the girl before she can get all her clothes back on.
Now, send yourself an note: A man is NOT your boyfriend until...
And if she's constantly flirting in front of you—with the waiter, or worse, your friends—that's a sign she isn't looking to settle down any time soon. But it all comes down to the context of the situation.
You’ve Never Been to Her Place If you've been seeing a girl for over a month and you've never been to her place, meanwhile she's been to yours a dozen times, there's a reason. If she doesn't want a trail on her social media, it could be because she just got out of a relationship and doesn't want people bombarding her with questions about this new guy in her life.
She Won’t Let You Meet Her Friends or Family "Some people think you should wait a while to introduce a date to family, but if you've been together for a few months normally you'd expect to at least meet a few friends," Sherman says. Ask her to introduce you to some of her closest guy and girl friends, first.
If she shoots the idea down, there's a good chance she doesn't see this as a long-term relationship and doesn't want to complicate things.