Older boys dating younger girls
You’ve always been told that you’re mature for your age and you mature for your age, so it seems to make sense to go for a more mature dude if you’re a straight teen girl who is bored of dudes your age, right? Of course, we’re super weary of relationships between teen girls and older men for a ton of reasons, but we know that we can’t make decisions for you.
So if you’re considering starting a relationship with an older dude or you’re currently in one now, here are x things that you migt want to consider first.
In a article, one writer claimed that her daughter forced her to ask herself a troubling question: "Can a 16-year-old be a cougar?
If you feel like you're in a situation in which you are expected to do more sexual things that you don't feel comfortable with, this probably isn't the right relationship for you.
If this dude is trying to groom you so that you can keep up with him sexually then this dude blows.
These laws exist for a reason, and they're there to protect young people from predatory jerks. If you and your friends are meeting up with dudes in their 20s and you're trying to keep it on the DL, you might be worried about getting caught.
And honestly, as cool as forbidden love sounds, it's often not always worth the anxiety. Think about it like this: You might be mature for your age but is he immature for his? If women his own age aren't giving him the time of day, then that means something.